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How should parents help children to be independent

By Kim Myers,2014-07-17 14:22
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How should parents help children to be independent

    How should parents help children to be independent?

     Recently ,according to the report, because most of the parents to the child do it all, the child's independent ability become worse and worse .Many reported that many college students even his daily life cannot provide for oneself. It is not exaggeration, but the fact that happened in our side. For example, our classmate JiangShang, when he come to air

    the quilt he must together with another, someone asked why. His answer actually is, mom

    didn't teach him how to tie the ropes to the tree.

     As we all know, he comes from a wealthy family, his parents too dote on him, so

    that he could not independently will simple life trivia well. But, self-reliance is the

    necessity conditions of the contemporary college students to adapt to social. So our

    parents, take you

    We can't always live in our parents around, let them take care of our life. So our parents, take you redundant dote on it. Children like fledgling , weak and cowardly, when he stood on the edge of the cliff, what he needs is not your wings, but he should you to push him

    to leave cliff .When he faced the danger, he will struggle, and he learned to fly. This is the growth .so that I think, parents can use the words "I believe you" instead of "I can help

    you" .To give him confidence, rather than a help. To give him confidence, not help children can become stronger, more independent. Only in this way can we in this competitive

     society gain a firm foothold.

    How should parents help children to be

    independent?

     According to the report, children's independent ability becomes worse and worse because most of the parents do everything for their kids, It’s reported that many college students even can’t deal with small problems such as washing his own clothes in his daily life. It’s not exaggeration but the fact that

    happened in our life. For example, our classmate

JiangShang, when he came to air the quilt he must

    take it together with another, someone asked why.

    His answer actually was, mom didn't teach him how to tie the ropes to the tree.

    As we all know, he comes from a wealthy family,

    his parents too spoiled him, so that he could not be independent. But self-reliance is the necessary

    feature for the contemporary college students to

    adapt to society. Our parents, therefore ,please give more chances to your children to make him or her be independent.

    Children can't always live in his parents around and let them take care of his life. So our parents, take you redundant dote on it. Children like fledgling , weak and coward, when he stood on the edge of the cliff, what he needs is not your wings, but your

    pushing him to leave the cliff .When he faced the

    danger, he would struggle against it, and he learned to fly. This is the growth .I cherish an idea that

    parents should use the words "I believe in you"

    instead of "I can help you" Give him confidence rather than a not necessary help. Give him

    confidence and help children become stronger, more independent. Only in this way can our kids gain a firm foothold and have a bright future in this competitive society

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